1. Martial Arts Can Improve Self-Confidence
Kids who have been the victims of bullying in school are likely to have lost confidence, but training in martial arts can help them to regain it. Taekwon-do classes incorporate the values of courtesy and respect, teaching kids to not only be respectful to others but that they also deserve to be treated with respect themselves and that no-one has to accept being bullied. Kids who are confident, have high self-esteem and the conviction that they don’t have to accept bad behaviour from their peers are also less likely to be the targets of bullying.
9-year-old Paige says she was encouraged to start Taekwon-do by her dad because “he knew that I was bullied at school”. Paige’s confidence has grown through training in martial arts and she now stands up to the bullies and recently defended a friend from a bully. Paige has developed a strong moral compass and says, “If friends are getting bullied, you stand up for them”.
Paige says her favourite thing about Taekwon-do is the instructors: “They’re really nice.”
Her younger sister, Khaleesi (6), has started Taekwon-do as well and says she loves the games, particularly “ninja-turtle” (like duck-duck-goose). Younger kids are introduced to Taekwon-do through play. They will learn basic strikes and blocks but the sessions are heavily focused on games and improving fitness, flexibility, balance and coordination - maybe without the kids knowing it!
The sisters want to keep training together and to achieve their black belts.
Martial Arts can help kids deal with Bullying
7-year-old Stevie has been training at Evesham Martial Arts since he was 4-years-old. Over the years, his confidence has grown and Stevie has started to help other kids at school, both in the classroom and protecting them from bullies in the playground.
Stevie’s dad is incredibly proud that Stevie is looking out for other kids and he feels confident that Stevie would always deal with bullies in the right way. He explains: “He leads by example.... if other kids are being picked on in the playground, he’ll go up to them and ask them (the bullies) to leave them alone, then tell the teachers.”
Dad says that Taekwon-do has “been brilliant” for Stevie. He says that “his confidence is a lot higher” and that training in Taekwon-do has also improved Stevie’s focus, concentration and teamwork: “They’re very good at getting him to work in teams, follow instructions and work hard”.
Stevie says that he loves “everything” about Taekwon-do and that he feels more confident now: “Now I know I can defend myself and others”. Stevie wants to continue training to achieve his black belt and to compete in world championships.
Martial Arts teaches kids the value of hard work and persistence
It’s clear that Aaron’s hard work has paid off. He won the “most improved student” award in 2016 and was “student of the year” in 2018.
Aaron’s mum says she was “amazed” by Aaron’s achievement and is obviously proud. She says, “I don’t think he finds it easy, but he works hard”.
Learning that ‘hard work pays off’ is an essential life skill for kids. They will face many challenges in school, such as exams, and even more as they go into adulthood. Instilling the value of perseverance in kids from an early age is likely to help them succeed in their school studies and other areas of life.
The journey in learning and improvement never ends in martial arts - even after black belt you can progress through the Dan grades and take on new challenges such as teaching. Martial arts never aims to be easy, but it can be hugely rewarding for kids to be able to look back and see how far they’ve come on their journey and how much they’ve improved.
Martial Arts can help to deal with anger issues
Kids who are struggling with feelings of anger need a positive and safe outlet to help them to manage their emotions. Punching and kicking bags is a good and non-destructive way to manage feelings of anger, stress and frustration.
Ginny, mum to Poppy and Bella, says that her girls have “changed dramatically” since they started Taekwon-do and have gained a lot more confidence: “My eldest, Poppy, had some anger issues and they’ve calmed down a lot”.
She says that Poppy has been training for a year and “it has done her a world of good coming here. She’s a different girl”. Ginny says the instructors are “all very welcoming” and that the gym is “a lovely place to come as well” and likes the viewing area for parents where they can watch their kids train.
Poppy seems a little shy in her interview but says she has become more confident through training in Taekwon-do. She especially enjoys doing flying kicks and sparring the instructors.
Her younger sister Bella started a few weeks ago. Bella seems to really look forward to class, and was eagerly waiting beside the mat before the start. Bella seems to have been particularly inspired by one of the instructors, Willow Manton (3rd Dan). Ginny says “Mr Manton is Bella’s hero”. Bella’s favourite part of Taekwon-do class is the kicks and she wants to follow in Mr Manton’s footsteps and get her black belt and to go into teaching. She says she feels confident that she could defend herself against bullies “even if they’re bigger than me”.
Martial Arts teaches goal setting and perseverance
Lily works incredibly hard. She has been training at Evesham Martial Arts for three years and also practises at home. She is now a red belt (2nd kup) and is hoping to achieve 1st Dan (black belt) by the end of next year and she’s already miles ahead. This young woman has a strong sense of dedication and confidence in her abilities and says she already started learning her next pattern even before she found out if she had passed her red belt grading.
“I love learning new patterns,” she says and she also enjoys kicks and sparring. She really likes the instructors at Evesham Martial Arts: “They’re really nice. I love them! They’re funny and good teachers”.
Lily says that Taekwon-do has “definitely changed me as a person. I wasn’t as confident as I am now” and says that training in Taekwon-do has also helped her to stand up to bullies: “Sometimes at school people say mean things about me. At Taekwon-do they teach you how to stand up to bullies… they leave me alone now”.
Lily says that Taekwon-do has helped her to focus and that she uses the Taekwon-do tenets in everyday life, recently persevering through her exams. She believes the most important tenet is perseverance: “You should never give up and if you want to achieve a goal, stick to it until you achieve it then set a new standard for yourself to get to”.
She says that it will take “all of the Taekwon-do tenets and patience” to become an Olympic champion. It’s an ambitious goal, but Lily definitely has the skill and dedication to achieve it.
Where could starting a new adventure training in martial arts take your child? Achieving a black belt, international competitions or inspiring others through teaching? Evesham Martial Arts offers two lessons free as a trial so there’s no excuse not to give it a go!